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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Once a girl hits adolescence, gone are the glittery lipglosses, ballet classes and all pink everything bedroom. Maturing and growing out of things are inevitable and healthy, and often we must shed the old to discover the new. It is the rejection of these innately innocent and feminine interests that continues the cycle of young women feeling inferior, and under pressure to act and dress a certain way. Girlishness does not have to be all you are defined by and it certainly does not have to abide by the surrounding societal connotations of naivety and the ‘airhead’, or follow the conventions of sexualised youth in modern society. By experimenting with and embracing the concept and aesthetic of girlishness during adolescence, it can be reinvented and metamorphosed into a unique and empowering interpretation of the ‘girly-girl’, giving it a sense of confidence and strength.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Molly Goddard’s Spring/Summer 2016 Ready-To-Wear collection epitomises the clumsy, girly, and awkwardly punky charm of the Molly Goddard girl. Goddard creates many of her dresses from delicate tulle, yet the scale, styling and ultimate impact of the finished looks neutralise the sense of vulnerability in the clothes. </span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Awkward adolescence and transitioning from girlhood to adulthood while holding onto youth is inherent in her designs. The dress has the general silhouette of a ball gown, yet features a dropped waist and loose fit, skimming over the female body of the model. Goddard shows a reluctance to design overtly sexualised pieces, and her dresses reminisce a girlhood dressing up box, with the suggestion of clothes containing a fantasy element (Guy and Banim, 2000). Goddard explores the empowering feminism of dressing to please only yourself, adding an avant-garde twist by incorporating unusual fits and dramatic silhouettes. Molly Goddard’s own interactive exhibition ‘What I Like’ featured six seven-metre long dresses hung from the ceiling on pulleys that visitors are encouraged to embroider into. This appeal into the mainstream shows that this revival of girlishness is not frivolous fashion, but rather a significant advance in the way women and feminism are perceived by society, and reflects the respect that this fashion is now receiving. (Brande, 2014)</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">I feel people hold onto the stereotypical 'skeleton' of anorexia and bulimia. For those without an illness, this means that they may not see or understand that people are suffering around them. And those with the illness are made to feel like they can't tell anyone of their struggles, in fear that they will seem 'fake' or 'over exaggerating'. </span></span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">I look healthy but my mind is still at war each day, I eat what looks like a normal diet, but I am so proud of myself for every mouthful that I consume. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Passing from this tiny trauma or mild bullying, I always found my body hair something to be ashamed of.<span style="font-size: large;"> <span style="color: #ea9999;">P</span></span><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">lucking</span><span style="color: #f4cccc; font-size: large;">, </span><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">tweezing, epilating, shaving, bleaching </span><span style="color: #ea9999;"><span style="color: #f4cccc; font-size: large;">and waxing,</span> </span>I have tried and tested them all, and Im now questioning why?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">More than half of all women are concerned about excess body hair, ranking it just behind weight gain for body dissatisfaction.</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: 10px;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px;">We are living in a time when<span style="color: #f4cccc; font-size: large;"> </span></span><span style="color: #f4cccc; font-size: large;">90%</span> of women<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 24px;"> remove the hair from their legs, arms, armpits and of corse hair down there.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #c27ba0; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: large; line-height: 18px;"><b>•Up until the age of about 18, irregular periods are quite common because the body is still working on perfecting the system.</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #c27ba0; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: large; line-height: 18px;"><b>•A young woman can get her first period anywhere between 10 and 16 years of age. Delayed onset of menstruation is rare, but if a girl hasn’t started by the age of 16, she should see a Gynecologist.</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #c27ba0; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: large; line-height: 18px;"><b>•<span style="font-size: medium;">A tampon does not make a woman bleed more than if she uses a pad</span></b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #c27ba0; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: large; line-height: 18px;"><b>•It is possible to get pregnant if a woman has vaginal sex during her period because sperm can survive up to a week in the body.</b></span></div>
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<b><span style="color: #c27ba0; font-size: large;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; line-height: 1.2;">•PMS can make you more violent.</span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; line-height: 1.2;">One study of female prison inmates concluded that they are far more likely to commit violent acts in the days preceding menstruation than in the days directly after menstruation.</span></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c27ba0; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">•Your period can cause an iron deficiency. Losing all that blood means losing all that iron. You may also feel so rotten and fatigued, you don’t bother ironing your clothes.</span></span></h3>
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<b><span style="color: #c27ba0; font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; line-height: 1.2;">•You need a little bit of body fat in order to menstruate.</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; line-height: 1.2;">If your body fat plummets below 8-12%, your period will abruptly cease, if it ever began at all. Fat cells are correlated with a woman’s estrogen levels and are thus necessary in both menstruation and procreation.</span></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">In a way we are almost taught to conceal periods, not talk about them and show no signs. It's a </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">"curse from mother nature" or an </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">obstacle to be tackled. There is absolutely nothing embarrassing, offensive or unnatural about a period. Its a part of life so don't stand for anyone telling you they're gross of shamefull. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">At the age of 16 I some how became a <span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">super health instagram food posting gym going 'fitspo' person</span>. Eating vegetables, fruit, quinoa and the occasional, matcha-hemp powder-goji berry smoothie, was the daily low down of nutriance. I got really involved with cooking, and enjoying exercising; but after 6 months of this clean body clean mind mantra, one day I recall looking in the mirror and thinking how can girls who eat Maccie D's 3 times a day have a thinner body than I do. It isn't fair. I don't understand. I pondered over my frame nit picking bits, my thighs, my stomach, my legs. I was warping my own views of my body because they <span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">didn't fit to 'ideals'.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">So I began to cut things out. Cutting down my food or changing my eating habits was the only way I thought I could look, feel and be great. Slowly I began to cut out food groups, first sugar, then carbs, then dairy. Before I knew it I was surviving off 130g walnuts and Redbull.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I had this <span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">sickening empowerment</span> the sense that I could decided things for myself and make a difference</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> to my body. But I wasn't in charge at all I had no power, no energy I couldn't just wake up one morning and be like this is over now, I had be well and truly sucked in. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I started to become very sneaky and deceptive, hiding food and setting up scenes</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> as if id eaten. Having anorexia completely</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> <span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">annihilated my social life</span> I went from being a lively person with friends to a secluded silence. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I missed out on so much; friends birthday meals, nights out; as I was to concerned that there was 96 calories in a Vodka soda lime. I had brutal anxiety whenever social situations came up involving</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> eating and would frequently suffer with panic attacks </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I slowly began to break down, I would go into school and just lay with my head on the desk purely because I had no energy to move, I had no concentration or the compel to communicate with others. I was incredibly cold and moody and cried. a lot. </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">to the point I </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">couldn't sleep, </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">id built up this immense wall when i knew that all i would have to do is eat and id feel better but i couldn't i had this mental block and this white noise preventing me.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">After around a year of this battle decided that something needed to change, I had never directly vocalised my illness though I knew people had there suspicions, </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">i confined in a person and asked them what I should do </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">they suggested that I got help. </span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I booked an appointment with a <span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">GP</span> I didn't know and told them through some tears the low down of the situation. </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I was weighed and measured and was told that I was still at a healthy weight but would go to get a psychiatric</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> examination (scary right). </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">This idea that i was 'normal' that I was still the same as everyone else, That i'd gone through this excruciating time and it made no difference? It made me so much hungrier to 'win' I wanted to show people how distraught I felt on the inside externally</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">One of the first questions the doctor asked me was "whats the most important thing in your life right now" I bluntly answered <span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">'being skinny'</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I initially had 3 sessions a week at the hospital : one on one therapy, Nutritional appointments and group discussion. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I feel like one on one appointments worked best for me - aside for the 'scream at the chair as if it was you eating disorder, tell it how you feel' session,</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"> "shout at it, shout at it"</span> she said. </span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Nutritional for me was pointless, telling someone who hasn't eaten a proper meal in months that they should be consuming a full english 3 'Petit Filous'</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> and a roast dinner isn't helpful. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">But group was the worst, </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Some<span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"> 'proana'</span> blogs refer to eating disorders as "playing the game" one where the thinnest wins. Well putting 15 or so girls all with insecurities and mental disorders in a room together, just encouraged them all to play. Although discussing diets, calories and measurements was banned it didn't stop us. </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">After 5 weeks in group I saw this negativity asked to leave. W</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">hilst in therapy</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> I lost a further 2 stone</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">After a year things slowly started getting better, I became happier, I got a place at university and noticed that there were more important things in my life that fitting an ideal that was never designed for me. </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I slowly began to increase my diet starting with liquids, then my 'paste based diet' and then I remember</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> like the back of my hand the day I ate cous-cous. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">I am now a healthy and happy size 10</span>. Although</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> I do sometimes look at an old skirt or trousers and wish I was still that small there is nothing on this earth that would ever want to get back to that place. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Like any </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">break up or fall out,</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> its hard difficult dealing and resolving</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> problems. Its something you learn over time and experience. Having a fall out with a close friend can be one of the worst, someone you share everything with. You might be feeling lost or alone.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; line-height: 1.3em;">The longer you wait to try to smooth</span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; line-height: 1.3em;"> </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; line-height: 27px;">things</span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; line-height: 1.3em;"> </span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; line-height: 1.3em;">over, the greater the risk that you'll stay mad at each other. </span><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 1.3em;">Don't leave it too long. Don't send messages via text as your tone might be miss read, always call so you can have a 2 sided </span><span style="line-height: 20.8px;">conversation</span><span style="line-height: 1.3em;">.</span></span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.3em;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">You should be able to talk honestly and truthfully with a really good friend in spite of a falling out. </span></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; line-height: 1.3em;">If there's a real issue that caused this dispute, discuss it and try to reach a solution.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.3em;">For instance if you're upset because your best friend has no</span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.3em;"> t</span>ime<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.3em;"> </span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.3em;">for you since they've started going out with someone, you need to have an honest disscuassion and try to understand each other's point of view.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.3em;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Talk to them yourself, don't ask another friend to tell them how you feel, be direct. </span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 1.3em;">using a middle man might make it look as though you don't have the courage or care </span><span style="line-height: 20.8px;">enough</span><span style="line-height: 1.3em;"> to deal with issues yourself.</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 1.3em;">No matter what your fall out was over, if you still care about your friend you need to tell them otherwise they might just think that you're not </span><span style="line-height: 20.8px;">interested</span><span style="line-height: 1.3em;"> in your friendship anymore hence wont make an effort. T</span></span></span><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 1.3em;">ell them how much you value the friendship. It will be so much easier to put </span><span style="line-height: 20.8px;">difference</span><span style="line-height: 1.3em;"> aside when you both realise how much that friendship means to both of you. Try starting the convo with an inside joke to ease in.</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; line-height: 27px;"><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.3em;">Arguments with best friends </span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.3em;"> </span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.3em;">can easily become pretty brutal. </span></span><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 1.3em;">Even if you are still angry, always try to be </span><span style="line-height: 20.8px;">reasonable</span><span style="line-height: 1.3em;"> and civil when you see or are around your friend.</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #ea9999; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: large;"><span style="line-height: 26px;">Well sorry to pop this rumour but </span><span style="line-height: 27px;">hymens are somewhat of a myth; Or rather the </span><span style="line-height: 27px;">intact plastic rapper version is. Virginial hymens that 'pop' or 'pierce' inside of us do not exist. </span><span style="line-height: 26px;">The intact hymen almost never covers the entire vagina. If it did, girls that are virgins could not menstruate.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 27px;">By the time many women have sex, that vaginal corona may have devolved from a doughnut to an unnoticeable rubber band all by itself. G</span><span style="line-height: 27px;">irls can also stretch and tear the hymen by sexual activity, sports, horse riding, gymnastics, dancing, masterbation and inserting tampons</span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 27px;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">But isn't there supposed to be blood on the sheets like A</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 27px;">nna Karenina?</span></span><span style="line-height: 27px;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> B</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; line-height: 27px;">leeding during the first time you have sex is yet another myth.</span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Last night I found myself, at about 4 o’clock in the morning, lying in the dark safety of my duvet, scribbling down notes which I later entitled ‘A virgin with a sexual footprint’- I was trying to self analyse my non existent sex life. In recent months I’ve increasingly felt that my virginal state is one of the prime topics of conversation amongst my friends, who avidly express their desire for me to ‘loose it’ and join deep throating soc.- ok well not really the latter, but it’s all the same to me. In fact, some of my friends even housed an intervention in my honour when I went home in the holidays, pining me down as sexually frustrated and beyond the realms of Carol Ledoux style madness. I’d just like to make one thing clear just because I am a virgin does not mean I am sexually frustrated, inept or at all a prude. As nearly a 20-year-old virgin, something I’m certain isn’t an usual concept or thing, my experience of love and relationships has been fairly minimal. </span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I’ve had sexual encounters and it’s not like I haven’t had the opportunity if I’d really wanted to but for me my virginity is something I’d like to give up to someone who respects me, who understands and who I feel wholly comfortable with. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Just over a year ago now I had an encounter with an older man, not my last either; he was the best friend of a minor celebrity and I found myself on a night out in VIP with the two of them and their other companions. Carried away and overwhelmed by my apparent desirability I agreed to go with the man to his hotel room, he was aware at this point that I was a virgin.</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> </span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">A part of me till this day still feels secretly proud of myself, glad that I know even in situations when it’s easier to say yes I will say no. Refusing to compromise my own moral guidelines. I got over the experience fairly quickly, and it wasn’t till later on my girl’s holiday when found myself, with another man, affected by it; almost tearing up before fleeting the scene. I’ve also found myself obsessing other these men, not in a form of idolisation, but in general intrigue. The notion that the most intimate I have been with someone, revealing a part of my self that the rest of world is unaware of, is a stranger is something which constantly plays on my mind. A part of me even thinks that I have a sense subconscious sexual anxiety where, particularly after a drink or two, I’m more likely to pick the stranger rather than the friend I’ve flirted with over a period of months.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">One thing I have noticed in my daily pursuits, is that if you tell a guy you’re a virgin they immediately act different with you; dramatising it and often, in between their constant claims that they can’t believe you, trying to persuade you to let them be your first.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I wanted to write this to try and discuss or perhaps make better sense of, the societal pressure that is put on young people to be sexually active and experienced. Don’t get me wrong I don’t think there is anything bad about loosing your virginity at a young age, loose it however you want- it’s your right- but I’ve had some friends who are obsessed with it, as if it were a stamp marked across their head that they desperately needed to erase before embarking into the world and starting university. </span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">A part of me thinks I’m kidding myself, where my perpetual reflections of virginity are merely a result of deep rooted sexual frustration, anxiety and concern; but I’d like to think otherwise and acknowledge it as form of expression, a manifesto. If I had to advise my younger self, the worried girl who was desperate to be found attractive, to be skinny and desirable, I would tell her to be patient, it will happen when it happens, to take risks, to never compromise and to just enjoy growing up. Sex takes time (and there’s always Pornhub.)</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">When the vagina is resting or when it isn’t “open” the walls inside touch each other, like a deflated balloon. When the vagina is aroused it lengthens and expands, creating space that air <i><span style="color: #f4cccc;">(and other things)</span></i> can get into. If something goes inside the vagina at this point, it forces the air out, and like a ballon when you force the air out of an inflated balloon really fast: It makes a farting noise. The exact same thing happens when air is forced out of your vajayjay. The chances of Queefing is heightened the more times a penis is fully withdrawn from the vagina and then reinserted, which often happens when you change position.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Healthy relationships are about respecting each other. In a relationship you should feel safe, free and loved by the other person.</span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="color: magenta; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">•Putting you down all the time, using names like ‘frigid’ or ‘slut’ to control what you do, humiliate you and destroy your self-esteem</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">•Threatening to harm you or to self–harm if you leave them</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #222222; font-family: "notonashkarabic" , "helvetica neue" , "helvetica" , "roboto" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 17px; line-height: 27px;">Slut-shaming is the experience of being labeled a sexually out-of-control girl or woman </span><span style="color: #f4cccc; font-family: "notonashkarabic" , "helvetica neue" , "helvetica" , "roboto" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: large; line-height: 27px;">(a “slut” or “hoe”)</span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "notonashkarabic" , "helvetica neue" , "helvetica" , "roboto" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 17px; line-height: 27px;"> and then being punished socially for possessing this identity. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #222222; font-family: "notonashkarabic" , "helvetica neue" , "helvetica" , "roboto" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 17px; line-height: 27px;">Slut-shaming is </span><span style="color: #f4cccc; font-family: "notonashkarabic" , "helvetica neue" , "helvetica" , "roboto" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: large; line-height: 27px;">sexist </span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "notonashkarabic" , "helvetica neue" , "helvetica" , "roboto" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 17px; line-height: 27px;">because only girls and women are called to task for their sexuality, whether real or imagined. For some reason boys and men are congratulated for the exact same behaviors that women would be labeled </span><span style="color: #f4cccc; font-family: "notonashkarabic" , "helvetica neue" , "helvetica" , "roboto" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: large; line-height: 27px;">'SLUT'</span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "notonashkarabic" , "helvetica neue" , "helvetica" , "roboto" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 17px; line-height: 27px;"> for doing. This is the essence of the sexual double standard: </span><br />
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<span style="color: #222222; font-family: "notonashkarabic" , "helvetica neue" , "helvetica" , "roboto" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 17px; line-height: 27px;">Slut shaming needs to be </span><span style="color: #f4cccc; font-family: "notonashkarabic" , "helvetica neue" , "helvetica" , "roboto" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: large; line-height: 27px;">eradicated </span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "notonashkarabic" , "helvetica neue" , "helvetica" , "roboto" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 17px; line-height: 27px;">completely being sexually free and doing whatever you decide to do is your choice. Don't allow anyone to call you out or call you names. </span><span style="color: #f4cccc; font-family: "notonashkarabic" , "helvetica neue" , "helvetica" , "roboto" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: large; line-height: 27px;">YOU DO YOU BO. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">A crippling fog has enshrouded society for as long as any woman can remember, nesting within the impressionable morals those who have become accustomed to it; beginning to fester, and polluting their minds. We've been in the eye of the storm for too long, and the number of people who have opened their eyes to these infected ideas blossoming around them is growing quickly, as quickly as those trying to keep everyone as blasé about the issues as they are. And as shrewd as they are not, they've been doing a good job of it.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Rape culture has been ignored, denied and disregarded for years. This increased awareness has been gradual, and as is tradition with revolutions, after every small injustice more eyes become unclosed to the distorted world around them. The world in which we live is one where so many girls, and others, feel like their own streets are a never-ending labyrinth of panicked head turning at even a smallest flicker of a sickly yellow street light. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">People really believe that this isn't there, that it's some fantasy conjured up in the minds of so-called crazy feminists who have nothing better to do than give men everywhere a bad name. And so some of these men claim that it's really out of their control whether they rape someone or not – they were asking for it. She was all over him, look at the way she was dressed in fish net tights, of course she wanted it! This is a view of so many – if you dress or act promiscuously, you can't be surprised that you were raped; summing it up concisely, Freda Adler once said, “Rape is the only crime in which the victim becomes the accused”. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">This is why the feminist movement is so vital to men, as well as women. Through victim blaming, men are being portrayed as feral beasts who can't control themselves around women, but it's not as if the people who encourage this 'slut shaming', knowingly or not, are uneducated heathens. No, slut shaming has somehow become a part of everyday life, from something as simple as a bit of gossip between friends, to degrading and destructive bullying – all of it. And this is what rape culture is about; the way it has slowly and steadily seeped into the collective mind of society. It has become so second nature to judge a woman on how short her skirt is or, for some, to sympathise with a rapist rather than providing victims of sexual assault with the essential support they need. One in five American women have been the victim of an attempted or completed rape, yet a frankly appalling number of people believe that many reports of rape are fabricated, and respectable institutions like colleges can be openly hostile to rape victims. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">It doesn’t matter what gender you are, whether you’re straight, gay or bisexual. if you’re planning to do anything sexual then both you and your partner must give consent.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">So how do you know if someone gives consent? Its easy you just have to obviously agree to the activity.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I<b>t’s not consent if someone does something because they feel like they have to.</b></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">If you want to do something sexual with your partner, the responsibility lies with you to check for consent, not with your partner to say ‘no’ if they don’t want to.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Someone cannot assume another person is giving consent. Remember they don’t have to actually say the word ‘no’ and that they can communicate through body language just as much as speech.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">If somebody agrees to sexual activity because they’ve been pestered, intimidated, or faced physical or emotional threats, they have not given consent. Consent needs to be given freely.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">•Someone might try to pressure you by calling you frigid or say ‘if you loved me you would.</span></span><br />
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">•Being encouraged to drink lots of alcohol or take drugs to make you more likely to have sex</span></span><br />
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">•Someone might try to pressure you into something to ‘prove’ you are not lesbian, gay, bi, or transgender</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">This is a very difficult thing to write, because in truth I am so inexperienced in loss. I lost a pair of earrings my brother had given me for my eighteenth birthday. I phoned up the shop where he had brought them, tracked down the jeweller and had a new pair made. I do not know what I will do when I lose something that I cannot replace.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Recently, my mother had a minor operation on her leg. It was nothing serious, but she was placed under general anaesthetic. The evening of the operation we drove her home, grumpy and with a cast over her leg. I was on holiday at the time. My brief stint at caring was a testament to my selfishness and to how lucky I am.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">At the time, I was worried. I worried she might not wake up; that there might be complications. Sitting in that hospital waiting for her to come round felt like the most serious thing on earth.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Who am I kidding? I have friends whose parents have serious health conditions; parents in and out of hospital for six months; operations; intensive care; car accidents; cancer; mastectomy’s; a snapped Achilles tendon. Gather a group of your friends around you and I suspect you will discover the same. When you’re young, and I am, you have that strange sense of invincibility. But in fact you will soon realise people are always falling in and out of health.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">When you’re talking to a friend whose dad has had cancer, it can make you embarrassed to be worrying about your mother’s minor operation or the fact that your dad fell of his bike last week. But I think it’s ok. It’s ok to care. Just because somebody else has suffered more than you, it does not mean you are not allowed to suffer. I’m not trying to tell you that Your Problems Are Important and You Matter a Lot, I’m trying to tell you that the fact that you are worried about somebody you love, for however minor a reason, is ok. </span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Dealing with friends who are going through this is difficult. Sometimes you hover uncomfortably, knowing they’ve probably confided their feelings to somebody else and are keeping you at bay. They might not talk about it, or shrug it off in a casual way, or keep it small-talk. I know somebody who informed me her grandparent was dead only when she texted me to ask me to pick up some English homework. At the same time, I sat with one girl for about forty minutes as she sobbed over a picture of her recently deceased grandmother while I patted her awkwardly on the back. </span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">I think the best advice to come up with is to follow their lead. If they’re crying, then it’s best to comfort. If they talk to you and won’t stop just sit quietly; if they clearly don’t want to talk about it at all, then don’t push it. Polite questioning is nice, like: “how’s your mother doing?” and then listen, properly listen, and then make a judgement. </span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Everybody deals with grief differently. To you, one reaction – be it clam-like silence or a full on emotional meltdown – probably seems like the most obvious form of grief. But I have often found that an expression of grief is one of the most individual and personal acts of all. Watching somebody deal with loss can tell you a lot about them. </span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">At the moment I’m listening to Nothing’s Going to Hurt You Baby by Cigarettes after Sex. It’s a sort of sad song. It’s mournful because beneath underneath it all you know the guy singing cannot really stop the hurt. Shit happens. People fuck up. People blow up. You are not a long-armed cricket and you cannot always save the people you love. And you can’t always stop the people you care about, especially your friends, from being hurt. I’m sorry. I truly am.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">When the lights are off and I’m lying in bed in the dark, sometimes I find myself thinking about death. I worry about my grandparents, my brother, my parents, my friends. And then I stop myself. My trick is to always shift my thoughts to what I am going to wear in the morning. I remind myself of the promise of tomorrow.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">You are young; I am too. If all things go to plan, then I predict life. Don’t worry about death, or loss. When the hurt comes, it comes. If your friend is a collapsed heap on the floor because her aunt passed, or her dad got a positive diagnose, or her gerbil died, then it’s your job to get down in the floor with her and help her. And if she doesn’t want to talk about and just wants to sit throwing hula-hoops in a Styrofoam cup then you just have to suck it up and sit with her and keep score.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Through your life you will lose things. You will lose your phone under a pile of crap under your desk and you will lose somebody you love for no reason whatsoever. But trust me when I tell you it’s going to be alright.</span></span></div>
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<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="color: #f4cccc; font-size: large;">"It's normal and healthy to produce a clear or white discharge from your vagina"</span>. </span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; line-height: 1.4em;">This mucus is produced naturally from the neck of the womb, known as the cervix.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; line-height: 1.4em;">The amount of vaginal discharge varies throughout your menstrual cycle (brown discharge is usually the end of your period) and most pregnant women will get a </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; line-height: 1.4em;">pregnancy discharge</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; line-height: 1.4em;">."</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Healthy discharge doesn't have a strong smell or colour. You may feel an uncomfortable wetness, but you shouldn't have any itching or soreness around your vagina.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span data-redactor-tag="strong" style="box-sizing: inherit;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b>Thirty percent of women have trouble reaching orgasm.</b> So i</span></span><span style="line-height: 27.2px;">f you're having trouble climaxing theres <span style="font-size: large;">nothing to worry about and you're not alone.</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 27.2px;">"According to Planned Parenthood statistics, as many as <span style="color: #f4cccc; font-size: large;">1 in 3 </span>women have trouble reaching orgasm when having sex. And as many as<span style="color: #f4cccc; font-size: x-large;"> 80%</span> of women have difficulty with orgasm from vaginal intercourse alone."</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 29.25px; text-align: start;">Although the entrance of the vagina is often sensitive, about three inches in the vagina, nerves just about disappear. </span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; line-height: 27.2px;"><span style="line-height: 29.25px; text-align: start;">While some lucky people can and do achieve orgasms vaginally" or through the <span style="font-size: large;">G-spot,</span> which is often stimulated through the vagina",</span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; line-height: 27.2px;"><span style="line-height: 29.25px; text-align: start;"> most of us need a little something more (ie) <span style="color: #f4cccc; font-size: large;">clitoral stimulation</span>. </span></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; line-height: 29.25px;">T</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; line-height: 29.25px;">he clitoris is that little bump of skin located at the top of the vulva. The visible part of the organ is called the glans clitoris, and the little covering that it wears sometimes is called the clitoral hood.</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 29.25px; text-align: start;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">But there is more to the clitoris than meets the eye! It actually extends under the skin into a whole system, including cura or legs, that spread down either side of the vulva and bulbs that hang underneath those.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Soooooooooo you may have seen a load of year 11's smoking in the park, at a party or round the back of school. <span style="color: #f4cccc; font-size: large;">Have you ever wondered why people smoke</span>, when we are constantly told how bad it is for us why do people take up this habit to begin with?</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 17.024px;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Some people might start smoking purely because of <span style="color: #f4cccc; font-size: large;">curiosity</span>. Others may like the idea of doing something <span style="color: #f4cccc; font-size: large;">dangerous</span>, something adults don't want them to do. And others might see or know lots of people who smoke and think it's a way to<span style="color: #f4cccc; font-size: large;"> act or look grown up.</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.4em;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Tobacco contains a chemical called <span style="font-size: large;">nicotine</span> this causes a tingly or pleasant feeling –that lasts about <span style="font-size: x-large;">9 seconds</span>-. Nicotine is also highly addictive, this means that if you start to smoke your body and mind will become so used to it that you will build up a dependancy and need to have it just to feel normal. </span></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; line-height: 1.4em;">Anyone who starts smoking could become addicted to it. <span style="font-size: large;">If you're addicted to something, it's very hard to stop doing it,</span> even if you want to. Some people get <b>addicted right away.</b> And adults are often addicted, which is why so many of them have a hard time quitting smoking.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">So we may have established here that taking up smoking is not the best idea, but to <span style="font-size: large;">stub out </span>the situation even more s</span></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">moking is actually<span style="color: #f4cccc; font-size: large;"> illegal</span> until you are 18 years old, so if you're buying or smoking under 18 you're breaking the law.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">But probably worst of all, smoking increases your <span style="color: #f4cccc; font-size: large;">c</span><span style="color: #f4cccc; font-size: large;">hances of getting cancer </span>and other horrible diseases which in the end can <span style="font-size: large;">kill you</span>. So maybe pass on that drag.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 29.7px;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: 17px; line-height: 23.8px;">There are two kinds of emergency contraceptive pill. Levonelle has to be taken within </span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #333333; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; line-height: 23.8px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: start;">72 hours</strong><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: 17px; line-height: 23.8px;"> (three days) of sex, </span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: 17px; line-height: 23.8px;">and EllaOne has to be taken within </span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #333333; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; line-height: 23.8px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: start;">120 hours</strong><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: 17px; line-height: 23.8px;"> (five days) of sex. Both pills work by preventing or delaying ovulation </span></span></div>
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